Be a Friend, Not a Life Coach
Tracy McMillan, author, "Why You're Not Married ... Yet"
You aren't in charge of your friends' lives, but you are in charge of your own. Strive to be loving. Listen without giving advice. Help to pick up the pieces.
True Friends Tell Hard Truths
Juli Slattery, author, "Finding the Hero in Your Husband"
After you have voiced your concerns, do your best to encourage your friend even if he chooses not to take your advice.
The Advice I Needed, but Didn't Get
Beverly Willett, Coalition for Divorce Reform
I fought to save my marriage, when some of my friends said I should run. What if more people supported our decisions, instead of judging them?
Be Honest. Be Supportive. Be Realistic.
Thomas Matlack, The Good Men Project
If Anthony Weiner were my buddy, I'd say: "Dude, whatever treatment you got didn't work." If Huma Abedin were my friend, I'd say: "Only you know whether to stay."
Bite Your Tongue. Bide Your Time.
Jennifer Weiner, novelist
If your B.F.F. wants to vent, you listen and make soothing noises. But you can't tell her to leave her boyfriend. That's a conclusion she'll have to reach on her own.
Be Tough, but Soft
Keli Goff, The Root
Honesty in relationships is crucial. Brutal honesty may not be. The more painful the truth to be conveyed, the softer your delivery needs to be.
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